I do not know of any other author that is even capable of transmitting the emotion, the heart, the heaviness of this. Blair, you are a blessing to all of us. Thank you for sharing.
Holy shit! That is some fucking writing. I mean sure, I am a Twight fan. And I am sober. But Jesus that is some amazing writing. Wow. That sort of concentration and willingness from a writer, holy shit. Jesus. Man that is amazing writing. Way to go Blair.
I did the exact same thing when I became a dad. My character simply doesn’t go well with substances, and drinks in particular. It took me a messy childhood and a blurry 20s decade to realize that I just don’t want my kids to remember that pH shift in the room that reeks of “the night before”.
I can also confess of being a Mark fan, which makes me all the more glad for both of you. May you live fully and happily, and may your lives keep inspiring us for years and years to come!
As someone who had their entire childhood spited by an alcoholic dad, to then that dad going cold turkey and now being almost 6.5 years sober I felt this deeply and am immensely proud. No one understands how dark the darkness can be before the dawn. Thank you for your words and thank you for the reminder. 💕
Thanks for reading, feeling, and sharing back, Ian. I have been thinking of you and your dad lots recently. We never know where the journey will take us, so glad to hear about his own journey with sobriety and what they can heal and grow.
Blair, so beautifully versed. So happy for both of you. Those that are willing to find their way through the darkness, are honored with the gift of light, that they may use to show the path to others.
Damn, this is good. Congrats to him on 365 days. Good on you for being the partner who walks with. And the words… you have a way with them. Keep writing (both of you), making (art and bodies), and walking up mountains (literal and metaphorical).
Thanks for sharing the challenge and the ongoing accomplishment. Paraphrasing a blessing from my faith tradition: “Grant Mark an inquiring and discerning heart, the courage to will and to persevere, a spirit to know and to love, and the gift of joy and wonder in all of the world.”
Rob, I love this, thank you for reading and sharing back. I have tried to more consciously approach discernment in the past year so I really appreciate these words.
Thanks Blair, this was an inspiring piece, appreciated how you brought us in without too much invasiveness. So stoked for Mark (and for yourself, can’t forget the partners), I hate that alcohol enhanced parts of Mark that I have absorbed and pondered for so long and of which have shaped me. But again, these horizons just keep showing us that growth as a person sprout from the places you sometimes least expect.
PS: I’m an old follower and I wanted to thank you for the respectful insights into the 2024 schism, I have sat here in Oz confused to the dramatic changes, but this slither of info provided me with enough to let it lie now. Appreciate you 🙏🏽
Mark and I spoke about the oddity of being sober for us on his visit. Culturally speaking we both come from hard drinking tribes. Mark is ahead of me by 9 months and we didn’t know each other had gone cold turkey until dinner the first night. The best 2nd/3rd order effect is that Mark’s sobriety has positively affected others and will continue to do so. …..a true gift to his Tribe.
I do not know of any other author that is even capable of transmitting the emotion, the heart, the heaviness of this. Blair, you are a blessing to all of us. Thank you for sharing.
It means a lot. Thank you.
Holy shit! That is some fucking writing. I mean sure, I am a Twight fan. And I am sober. But Jesus that is some amazing writing. Wow. That sort of concentration and willingness from a writer, holy shit. Jesus. Man that is amazing writing. Way to go Blair.
I came here to say exactly this.
I got your back bro!
Thank you, it really means a lot to me.
I did the exact same thing when I became a dad. My character simply doesn’t go well with substances, and drinks in particular. It took me a messy childhood and a blurry 20s decade to realize that I just don’t want my kids to remember that pH shift in the room that reeks of “the night before”.
I can also confess of being a Mark fan, which makes me all the more glad for both of you. May you live fully and happily, and may your lives keep inspiring us for years and years to come!
Petar, I’m glad to hear where your journey is at too. Thank you for sharing. 🫀
what a great news to read. I got sober when I was younger, and am still so today. life isn't necessarily better, just easier to navigate.
“Not better but easier to navigate.” 🫀
As someone who had their entire childhood spited by an alcoholic dad, to then that dad going cold turkey and now being almost 6.5 years sober I felt this deeply and am immensely proud. No one understands how dark the darkness can be before the dawn. Thank you for your words and thank you for the reminder. 💕
Thanks for reading, feeling, and sharing back, Ian. I have been thinking of you and your dad lots recently. We never know where the journey will take us, so glad to hear about his own journey with sobriety and what they can heal and grow.
This is the good work that gives many of us the clarity to move forward.
2,606 days sober today
Great work, Sean. Love to read this.
Amazing. Thank you Blair. Thank you Mark. 🫀🫀🐦⬛🐦⬛⚡️⚡️🫀🫀
Blair, so beautifully versed. So happy for both of you. Those that are willing to find their way through the darkness, are honored with the gift of light, that they may use to show the path to others.
Thanks for showing and encouraging a path, Raymond. What a friend, what a human, you are. 🫀
Damn, this is good. Congrats to him on 365 days. Good on you for being the partner who walks with. And the words… you have a way with them. Keep writing (both of you), making (art and bodies), and walking up mountains (literal and metaphorical).
Friend. 🫀
Thanks for sharing the challenge and the ongoing accomplishment. Paraphrasing a blessing from my faith tradition: “Grant Mark an inquiring and discerning heart, the courage to will and to persevere, a spirit to know and to love, and the gift of joy and wonder in all of the world.”
Rob, I love this, thank you for reading and sharing back. I have tried to more consciously approach discernment in the past year so I really appreciate these words.
Thanks Blair, this was an inspiring piece, appreciated how you brought us in without too much invasiveness. So stoked for Mark (and for yourself, can’t forget the partners), I hate that alcohol enhanced parts of Mark that I have absorbed and pondered for so long and of which have shaped me. But again, these horizons just keep showing us that growth as a person sprout from the places you sometimes least expect.
PS: I’m an old follower and I wanted to thank you for the respectful insights into the 2024 schism, I have sat here in Oz confused to the dramatic changes, but this slither of info provided me with enough to let it lie now. Appreciate you 🙏🏽
Growth certainly can, what a journey it all is. 🫀
Wow.
Blair - I love your words and your ability to communicate so much with such depth!
Mark- you are incredible and always inspiring. Keep up the good work!
Beautiful. Worth it. Even when there are ghosts and demons, they're better to slay sober.
This. Yes.
Yay Mark!! I loved reading this — resonated with me on several layers.
Love you, Friend. Thank you.
This is beautiful
Mark and I spoke about the oddity of being sober for us on his visit. Culturally speaking we both come from hard drinking tribes. Mark is ahead of me by 9 months and we didn’t know each other had gone cold turkey until dinner the first night. The best 2nd/3rd order effect is that Mark’s sobriety has positively affected others and will continue to do so. …..a true gift to his Tribe.
This. Yes. I am so grateful you all had time together. That you can share a new journey together too.